Worship

Loving the Middler Child

The middler child needs to know that we do indeed care and we are willing to share his feelings of pain and rejection as well as joy and happiness.

 

ã  Recognize the uniqueness of each individual. No two children are exactly alike.

ã  Accept the child just as he is. A child should not feel he has to earn acceptance and love.

ã  Praise the child regularly for his effort, whether it is a success or not. Notice improvements in behavior or in skills.

ã  Help the children find a workable set of guidelines to base their lives on, and stay within them.

ã  Spend time with the children outside the classroom, and listen to what each child says.

ã  Plan times to be alone with each child. Let him tell you about school, home, sports, etc.

ã  Make eye contact with each child whenever you can. These relations make contact on a deeper spiritual level possible.